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Category Archives: One woman thousand moments
Some where last year I lost touch with my subtitle ‘parenting and child driven learning ‘ . Kids were busy exploring themselves . I was busy trying to keep up with them and helping them that I did not get a chance to record or blog any of it . It took us some time to get accustomed with the new curriculum and fish out some ‘our time ‘ .
I plan to return to our simple projects and see where it takes us . I have always been a person who likes simplicity and most of all being myself . Striving to take my blog to the next level , whatever it is , sort of killed my blog . But in the past months I realised I do not blog for anyone . Now , you please do not take me badly . But the truth is I blog for myself . Selfish it may be . Or may be I don’t want to take the responsibility of trying to keep up with the expectations of my readers. I am a perfectionist by nature . Responsibility is a huge burden to me that I withdraw completely when things doesn’t go the way I want them to be .
I excel when I do some thing to please myself. In short all this means I am back to pester you all 😀
So , here we are ! Setting out again for a blogging journey with Ruby and Pearl .
Time table chart with ” Wonders of the world “
Fish made from pistachio shells
Also , tagging my blog friends here : Pallavi ( Crocodile Tears ) , Urmila ( Urmi’s little space ) , Shail ( Shail’s nest ) , Swaram ( Song of life ) , Uma ( Uma’s reflections ) , Shirley ( enriching your kid ) , Bikram ( Man bikram ) , Shilpa Garg (A rose is a rose ) , Sweety (swees ) , Reshmi ( ente kavithakal )
Without you all this place wouldn’t have been the same . Thank you for reading my
silly posts and commenting . Thank you for being my friend .
Ya , I know . No tag is complete without a set of questions . As it seems most of my blogging friends are in some stage of hibernation I pose only one question. The same one I was thinking today . As a student I have always liked choices in question papers . So I give you two options . Take any one of them 😉
1. Why do you blog ?
2. How and when did you start blogging ?
1. Why do you blog ?
As I said earlier in this post I figured out I blog for myself. Not to help the mankind or any of those excuses that I usually make whenever somebody talks about blog or blogging . I blog because I like it . I like the anonymity & accessibility . I like to see my thoughts put down in words .
2. How and when did you start blogging ?
When I started pestering my family with posts on orkut community my sister came up with this idea . ” Why don’t you start writing all this rubbish in a separate BLOG ? ” 😛 That was 2 years ago . Anyway , that is it . I did not even know what a blog means . But quickly found out I love this set up . There have been up and downs . Weeks together when I wouldn’t post anything but simply stare into my old posts . Arrange and rearrange the widgets and themes. Eventually I always come back to this beautiful place of mine .
Friends , take it from here . 😛 I am a hoarder when it comes to pictures ( or more precisely when it comes to anything other than storing important data in my brain 😀 )
Take whichever one you like the most or simply take all of them . Tag 5 of your friends or as many as you want 😛
Pallavi ( Crocodile Tears ) , Urmila ( Urmi’s little space ) , Shail ( Shail’s nest ) , Swaram ( Song of life ) , Uma ( Uma’s reflections ) , Shirley ( enriching your kid ) , Bikram ( Man bikram ) , Shilpa Garg (A rose is a rose ) , Sweety (swees ) , Reshmi ( ente kavithakal )
Even though we have been on a traveling spree in and around Kerala , the international travel bug hit us a bit late . As they say , better late than never and every journey begins with a small step . Let this be ours.
Last Tuesday ( October 4 th ) we set out on a 5 day trip to Colombo / Kuala Lumpur . As this was my first trip over seas , frankly , I did not have a clue what I should carry and all. So the pre – trip preparations were a bit hectic . Especially with two over excited kids under your feet grilling you with every kind of questions . By the time I reached the airport on Tuesday morning , I was already exhausted .
At the airport we were delighted to see three other families with kids almost of the same age as that of Ruby and Pearl. Three ten yr old boys , three five year old girls , one toddler and one infant . With in no time they all became inseparable and set the right momentum for a rocking trip.
There was a city tour of Colombo on our way to Ramada . Sri lanka is almost similar to India , especially Kerala and Tamil Nadu . But a lot cleaner . We were intrigued by the similarities in the way Sri Lankan ladies drape their sarees . It has a far resemblance to our ‘ chattayum mundum’ . Even when they drape it in Indian style the ‘pallu’ of their saree reaches their ankle . And I liked it .
The streets are similar to our Fort Kochi . I dozed off in between . It has been some time since I got chance to listen to any lecture . The guide’s description acted as a good lullaby 😉 I managed to get some snaps though .
One thing that I noticed is almost every other building has a statue in the front . So after taking one or two snaps we lost the thrill . The beach side road is very beautiful and we passed through that spot at the right time of sunset .
We came across a snake charmer on the premises of The National Monument . I was looking forward to see the snake dancing to the ‘pagdee’ . Even though India is known as the snake charmer’s land I haven’t seen any until now. But the snake charmer turned out to be a bit tactless and right away started asking for money making conditions and clauses and we lost the interest . Anyway I managed some snaps.
For shopping the Guide first took us to some cultural and ethnic shops which we found very expensive and not worth for the money . So later he gave in and took us to House of Fashions which was a good shopping experience .
We reached Ramada Hotel by 9.30 or so . And after food headed right away to sleep .
The Srilankan cuisine included ‘ idiyapom’ , ‘stew ‘ , ‘ chutney ‘ and a whole lot of dishes similar to ours . Just like Kerala the Portugal influence is more than that of the British .
Ramada is okay when your are in transit . Be sure that you have every thing you may need with you. The crew is not that keen on service .
We headed to Kuala Lumpur very early the next morning .
It is a sweet romantic melody and not at all melancholic . But when I hear this song a sadness grips my heart so tight that I cannot even breath . It takes me days to come out of it . Earlier I thought it was depression . But now I think it is just a trance . A bittersweet longing for a period of time which I will never visit again unless in my dreams .
Strangely I found out I like that feeling . It gives me time to think . Makes me silent. I get to finish the pending chores . And allows people around me some peace and quiet 😉
Like most of my favourite songs I do not play it on my Player . I wait for ‘coincidence’ to bring it to me .That is why FM is my favourite . I don’t use a ipod or walkman . I like to absorb the music that fills the space around me , like I am floating on the lyrics and the tune .
The last year I was in a very restless mood . It has reflected on my blog too. A few weeks back my father gifted me his tape -recorder and cassette collection to listen to while I am in my kitchen (er…. and destroyed my plan to buy a new generation MP3 player and radio 😛 ) .
It has effortlessly connected me again to my best friend of all time , Music. And for the first time in the last few years I feel at home.
Songs mark a period of your life in a way nothing else can . More than the songs themselves it is the memories that we hold on to . Just close your eyes and listen, and you will be there . Back in time . Like in some strange time machine .
Isn’t it for the same reason that we all love songs so passionately ?
This is one such song . It reminds me of our college trip to Kodai . The time of life when every thing was beautiful , sweet and merry . The time when the biggest problem was choosing the next day’s salwar and finding a plausible excuse for being late .
What are your memories ?
‘Don’t walk away if you intend to stay ‘ . This is roughly one of the updates I recently saw on FB updates . Whoever posted it , can claim it 😀 It is a really nice one !
Anyway this is exactly my case with this blogspace . One day I stepped aside and now I can only wonder what I have been posting for two years . I just can’t find any thread for a post and I just can’t find any words .
Today morning I have been reading some of the blogs ( A habit I had shaken off with great effort in the past month ) and I realised I don’t want to leave this cute little space of mine .
So , here comes the ‘Thursday Challenge ” for the week.
Without knowing what this week’s challenge is I had clicked a single snap . The only one that came thru my cam in the last month . It was clicked after the initial torrents though .
I was waiting for Pearl to come and was immensely enjoying the rain . The swishing wind which reminded me of that nostalgic sound inside a sea shell , swaying banyan trees , dark clouds , heavy down pour and not a single soul around . A rare chance to come by .
Edited to add
So , I too have decided to jump into the bandawagon of NaBloPoMo. Saw the updates on Face book from Swaram and saw the thrill and enthusiasm on Monika’s blog . I feel it is time to return to the one place where I really feel I belong and here I am . Maybe I will be the last one to join . They have all started two days back . So this post is more an announcement than a call . You can expect a post every day from me for the Month of May . Don’t say you haven’t been warned :p
First things first , thanks to my friend Pal , who introduced me to the Indian Blogosphere . Even though I have been into blogging for almost two years , the first year or so I was busy searching frantically about dyslexia , home schooling and sorts . Only recently I got into the Indian circle and is not familiar to many of you . I hope NaBloPoMo would bring a change 😀
I don’t know what I will post about in the days to come . As I claim this as a Parenting Blog I plan to post more on our Vacation Fun and activities . I hope this month will bring many interesting incidents so that I can post them right from my heart and not just do the WWs , TCs , Foto Fridays & Music Mondays . Lets watch it together !! Like the theme for this month’s NaBloPoMo goes “May be ” !!